Doms/Dommes beware......

It has been awhile since I have done a blog even though one has been at the back of My mind for a couple of weeks....

I have been busy dealing with a subbie that has been rebelling for the past couple of weeks and I have been trying hard to find the correct way to handle the problem.... Some the problem has been in My mind that subbie and to a certain point Myself had become too vanilla... littleone of course doesn't need any vanilla ( or almost any ) in her life with Me....

In trying to deal with this mini rebellion I have noticed something while reading some other blogs and it seems I am knot the only Dom to be going though this rebellion phase... I noticed that some fellow Doms have been handling this problem with a stern hand and whip, others with a kind heart and caring.... The one thing I have noticed that has come through is every Dom seems to end up having a good long hard session with his sub and that seems to have done the trick and the rebellion has been defeated...

So what can We learn from this observation, I honestly don't know completely but I think the only thing is a little rebellion is ok but anything more than must be handled quickly and firmly....

Vanilla.....

Over the past few weeks My littleone has started to act more vanilla than what she was trained for and lives, a BDSM submissive.... Is that My fault or hers? well it really doesn't matter who's fault it is, it has to be changed soon, very soon!

I am Dom that once I give an order/command I want it done then and now, unless I have or special circumstances decide differently.... I am also a Dom that once I have given that order/task I don't say it twice, but I just put the lack of action in My mental little black book.... The only exception to this rule is when one is in training, well littleone is long from days of training, she took to very well, even though she always believes that she is stupid/dumb which is far from the truth, she is a very smart submissive all be it opinionated from time to time....

Once again, work for littleone has played a big part of her return to this vanilla style I suppose and that pisses Me off again too, but I can't do much about it except to be there for her to vent.... For the rest of the time though, this vanillaism is starting to get Me upset, I don't like some of the things that the vanilla lifestyle brings, for example: challenging what I say or do, jealousy, and for lack of words, rebellion...

I suppose I should take her down to the dungeon and take a strip off her backside with a good hard session so she has something to think about for days, but My gut says that isn't going to cut it, this vanillaism must come from her mind and knot her body....

The vanilla bean is a wonderful plant and a LOVELY favor, but only in little doses, I want and demand that the BDSM style get back into littleone's mind and this time stay there...