Sunday, March 17, 2013


I wrote a blog the other day on a question that had been running around in My head for awhile, well to say the least it did more that I ever thought it would...

I hurt a person I care for a lot and I should have known it would have, since most if knot ALL My blogs cause troubles...

You would think I would know to keep My mouth shut over My 60+ years but I haven't and it now is coming back to kick Me in My ass in so many ways!!

Well, I think since My words have hurt folks and caused pain ( and knot the type wanted ) I am going to now stop it and go silent with My thoughts.... 

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

When is it time to call it quits???

Over the past few days I have been thinking ( yes, I know a bad thing to do ) about " When does a Dom-Domme/Master-Mistress/Sir-Lady decides to stop being a Dom/Master? " and go back to just being a vanilla person type again, fads away or starts teaching the new generation of BDSM'ers?

When does He/She knows when His/Her body ( ie: health reasons ) gives up, when His/Her frame of mind changes, when He/She has lost the respect and total control of His/Her submissive/slave, when He/She longer can satisfy His/Her submissive/slave or something else that I have forgotten to mention?

If He/She does decide how to leave as a Dom-Domme/Master-Mistress/Sir-Lady with a lot of fanfare, just leave via the backdoor or front door, or just drop of sight & mind never to be heard from again?

What are Y/your views, thoughts about this?

Friday, February 15, 2013


Well I just tried to use a new flogger that was given to Me at O/our New Year's BDSM Open house and I pooped out..

Hell even morningstar, which is recuperating from a medical test last longer....

Maybe it is time to hang up My Dom title and privileges???

Sorry morningstar :-((


Sunday, February 03, 2013