For the past five days My littleone hasn't worn her heart shaped dog tag ( see above ) and it has Me pissed, upset and thinking....
I could and would accept the first day since she was heading out to the Doctor's office but since then she has knot worn it, even when I have pointed out to her it wasn't there... Even though her Doctor is a cool MD, W/we have decided to keep the BDSM side out of the office for now. I must say that I never thought of it ( until now ) but the tag can be turned around and show a blank side, so to the Non BDSM side can be hidden yet at the same time to her it maintains her ownership to Me ....
Now for part of the five days, W/we were away at a BDSM camp out of the country so she couldn't wear it since she left it behind at home. Now I am knot sure if she had worn it to the camp anyone would have noticed it on her or knot, but I noticed it was not on and at a BDSM event too....
I really don't know what to do? To Me this little tag ( btw, the words on it read: morningstar owned by Sir ) says it all, she is Mine until I release her or she dies.... Does this mean My littleone is tired of being collared, owned or just fed up with this old Dom that makes mistakes?? I really don't know as to Me there is NO reason for her not to wear this tag everywhere, as you can see it doesn't really show to the Vanilla world anything but a pink heart and she can tell anyone that asks it was a special meaning gift from her Boyfriend...
How can I punish her if she no longer wants to wear it and announce to the BDSM world that she is proudly owned? or what punishment would be correct if I did decided to punish her for this?
Honestly, I just don't know anymore. I know I don't give her as many sessions as she wants & desires. I know I can't give her the 24/7 D/s she wants.
I just don't know anymore......
5 comments:
perhaps she needs you to take control and put it on her rather than wait for her too.
I have the ocassional problem with nicole.... she NEEDS to be told to do something, even if its what she desperately wants
Calvin
hanging my head in shame..
i am sorry Sir... it is nothing more than forgetfullness...
morningstar (owned by Warren)
You two need to seriously work on communication.
Yes I agree with Calvin you need to put it on her if she forgets and carry out the punishment as the offence occurs. I am sure taht you can find a toy that is more pain than pleasure.
The only fault that I see is reaction time, hers and yours. she might be a great sub but she is only human and needs reminders.
I know you can deliver very nasty reminders .
I know from what I have read from Morningstar that she was feeling a bit overwhelmed from the weekend event, and maybe just maybe there is a side of her that is feeling that her reaction was a let down for you, she had never had that level of sub drop before and it left her a bit nonplussed
.......Maybe your putting it back on her will help her regain her confidence that she is still worthy of being your submissive.
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