I have been told that I should take more of a Dominate role in My ways and stop being a GOS ( Good Old Sir ) also come up with different ways of doing things. I have also been told that It should be all about Me and that she comes afterwards if that at all.
Well, I just did that, I told her to get down to the dungeon after I had just finished shaving her cunt hair off so I could do what I wanted to do to her that being just to play a bit with her and then make her come.
What did I get for this, a crying, upset subbie :-( A sub that was at My feet ( after I called her over from her chair ) explaining things to a now silent Dom.
I JUST DON'T FUCKING GET IT !!! Oh, she explained it to Me but it really doesn't make any sense to this old Dom, maybe I am just too old for this privilege of being a Dom, maybe I should just bag My bags and let her find the Dom that understands what she wants, needs and the way she wishes to be handled because I just don't get it !!
And I am sorry for that too....