Sunday, July 08, 2007

The Yin and Yang of it.......

Here is the Yin......

Well this weekend started out I thought on a good side, first O/our friend Cloud, drakor, dave what every name he is using at this time dropped in for coffee and a chat about BDSM things like his wearing ladies panties under his shorts....

I and littleone had planned on going out to a restaurant that W/we like very much that is located by a canal and boardwalk to celebrate the start of littleone's vacation. As you can see I soon had her on her knees, ok she was trying to get a picture of a spider for O/our friend Buffalo that had just gone through a very bad reaction of a spider bite and littleone thought it would be oh so cute to send Him one since she is a little brat at times....



After a great meal at the restaurant and a great time down at the canal shooting loads of " artsy fartsy " pictures using My new Nikon D40 and littleone's Kodak W/we headed back home for well deserved rest

Saturday was a good time as littleone wrote in her blog..... I did enjoy doing all the things I did to her all day :-))

Now here comes the Yang....

Sunday started off by Me letting littleone sleep in until almost 8:00 AM ( something she had bitched about not being allowed to do with My pill taking schedule ). littleone really doesn't do well until she has had her morning coffee and cigarette and today was no exception, but I have learnt to live with this.

Next was the last straw that broke the camel's back for this month's Sunday Monthly Munch RSVP's or shall I say the lack of them! This month I had decided to hold a play party BBQ at the Condo instead of the normal restaurant location, well a couple of female Doms had decided not to attend yet their stories didn't even match even though they were going or not together. In the discussion with littleone about holding the play party littleone once again brought up about how the local BDSM community is always wanted things like munches, play parties but never seem to support them, just to name one Mistress Jade, I don't know what I have done to tick her off but in her website she always listed our monthly munch, now ( even after sending her a couple of emails to remind her just in case she had forgotten ) she never lists them even though she claims to support the whole BDSM community with her site. Oh there are some that knock themselves out for the community like Lady Viktoria and I thank Her for all her best efforts.

Once this discussion ended I decided to head for the basement and try working on the train layout so I can get to the level of completion like the picture shows, littleone had decided to start working on the tunnel/mountain/waterfall that she has had in her head for awhile, well soon lunch was called and I headed for the table, during the lunch littleone was getting upset with the fact that the tunnel wasn't going well and she really didn't know how it was going to work. Unfortunately this lead to a hot and heavy discussion and upset feelings on both sides only this time I stopped long before I normally do and headed back downstairs this would accomplish two things littleone time to cry and unwind while I packed up the work I started on and get ready to leave for home as I had finally had it with everyone and everything. After cleaning up things I went up stairs to get things ready to leave, but littleone was no where to be found on the ground level, I thought she had gone out for a walk ( that is her way to handle stressful things ) but no she was upstairs on the computer with her new games and that was fine with Me. Long story short I decided not to leave, but I was hoping that littleone didn't bring up the subject again as I know I would put My mouth in My foot ( I am good at that when I am upset ) and this time I didn't wish to do that so I sat on the couch reading things on the Net that I need to do. I told littleone that I was silent because of My fear. Well after a couple of hours littleone fell at My knees and wanted to fix the problem, the short of it she did although not completely as I feel her lovely gift of the train is going to be the death of U/us. I have always hoped that the trains would be a great thing for U/us to do together but it seems it isn't.





So there is the Yin and Yang of the weekend, except I did have to leave this evening because of planned things at home, but I did leave in My mind that things are back on track ( sorry for the pun ) well at least there wasn't a bid derailment...

PS: littleone's War and Peace length blogs must be rubbing off on Me

1 comment:

SeaRabbit said...

You have no idea how comforting it is for me to read that you too have some arguments over such little things!! What is also comforting is that little one isn't reacting as wildly as I do...