Monday, June 13, 2005

Part-time Dom

Over the past couple of weeks I have felt like I was being a "part-time" Dom to my littleone and that was confusing her and to Myself...

I noticed that some of My earlier training and " Rules to Live By " were no longer being followed to the way I wanted or planned for them to be done by littleone. I have thought long and hard about just who was at fault, Me or littleone? To this question I have to say on the most part it has been My fault. I have let the vanilla lifestyle move back in to littleone's life more than she should/needs to have. When I started training her almost 4 years ago I had made several rules but the MOST important one was that " Family, Work or Health " should/must always come first and I would/must have to back off, well now I must look at this rule again with different eyes.

In the area of " Family " for the most part everyone knows and accepts Me as her "Man" in her life even if some of them don't know that I am her Dom, therefore I will be more of her Dom now in family things....

In the area of " Work " well that one is going to have to stay the same for the most part, although I will have to step in if things don't change in Sept....

And in the area of " Health " I will be in her face for smoking ( stopping completely), weight ( I need to lose weight too ) and anything else that I feel needs to be handled.....

Even if I am knot there 24/7 like W/we both want to be, littleone is going to have to live like I am there all the time or there is going to be lots of punishments, and I am no longer going to except " but Sir " as an excuse from now on....

On a different note over the weekend W/we visited Il Bolero and I finally purchased a good set of cuffs so I don't worry anymore when littleone goes in sub space.



So, I do hope and pray with the new improved Sir my chattel, littleone, will be more happier with both her vanilla and BDSM life....

Sir, proud owner of morningstar

2 comments:

littleone said...

i have been trying very hard Sir to refrain from the "but Sirs" even in my head.

The weight makes me cringe more than You know..... i will focus on it..

CLoud said...

I wish you well in your endeavors and hope both of you suceed i achieving the relationship you desire.

Cloud