Sunday, May 21, 2006

Someone new, something new.....

This should have been posted a couple of days ago, butt I haven't got permission yet to use a picture I shot* and one of the things I have ALWAYS said to any one in this lifestyle that the pictures I shot are yours and YOU decided who sees them. This policy applies especially to submissives/slaves, that is to say I ALWAYS give them the pictures directly and knot to their Dommants until such time as the submissive tells Me it is ok to give their Dommant the photo.

Now that is out of the way W/we have a play session with a " Newbie " couple last week along with something I have never had before, a house boy. That meant that littleone became an " Alpha " subbie butt more about that later I want to talk about the house boy. The house boy really was O/our good friend C/cloud ( I am using / now for Cloud since he has gone back to being a switch ) and I must say to him well done and thank you!!! his service that night was just wonderful even though I know he was dying to be a brat ( something he loves to be when he is a sub ) but I made sure he couldn't be even had littleone email a form of a contract of his duties for the evening including his behavior to his " Liege ". Since the moment littleone came up with the idea of having a house boy I teased C/cloud about it. Mostly by second guessing everything he would come up with from the moment I invited him over. I thought and I was correct he would love what was going to happen, but I also thought he would enjoy it more if he didn't know what was going to happen. Oh he tried to find out things from Me and also littleone all week while W/we talked to each other on MSN Messenger..

Now, as for O/our " Newbie " couple, this couple are two lovely people that a couple of months ago wouldn't have even looked at each other I believe especially in the lifestyle. He was into the scene but as a shy submissive looking for a strong FemDom, but really never found one. On the most part sat on the sidelines and watched and hoped. ( sorry I have to stop for a min while I canned littleone to finish her blog ) Now as life would have it, after months of no luck finding that FemDom He runs into this nice vanilla single parent of the same school that his kids belong to and wham they click, but only in the vanilla way and that was great. Somehow I really don't or can't remember she seem to get more interested in the lifestyle, to the point that he had to change from submissive to Dommant. Well I must tell you that My head was turning circles but with the biggest grin for Him, butt at the same time tears, see the problem is He is too much of a teddy bear and she was getting into the scene by leaps and bounds. I know that feeling that He was going though " How can I hit her, I was brought up knot to hit a lady? " and she was demanding ( My word there ) more and harder treatment. So littleone and I tried to assist each one of them to either move faster or slower depending on who W/we were talking to. Long story short W/we invited them over to an evening of friendly lifestyle discussion and seeing the dungeon and that night was a hit. Well, I got an email from Him a few days ago asking nicely if they could use the dungeon sometime. Now, I must say that I love it when " Newbies " ask to use or learn things especially if it involves the dungeon, since I am a bit of a voyeur and teacher. After seeing what I did see on Friday night** I don't think I will be using the term " Newbie " with this couple ever again, oh yes they need more work on techniques butt they are well on their way to a great BDSM life and I can hardly wait until the next time they are over to the dungeon....

All in all Friday was a great evening. Oh, I was going to tell you are about littleone's first time as an " Alpha " sub, well she didn't like it in her words " ………. anyway.. maybe it worked maybe it didn't.. but i do know in a lot of ways i felt very uncomfortable having him serve …. and be in the shadows… sort of like i was being a bad hostess… " and I think she has told you what her opinion is on this " Alpha " thing is... of course, that doesn't mean it isn't going to happen again.....

* I finally got permission for this picture:



** I was given permission for this one from the couple:

4 comments:

Jo aka SeaRabbit said...

Very interesting, as what I faced many time... He have problem with the notion of 'respect', love, and education... I know because we talked about it many times... It is frustrating for me... and for Him to, I presume... but He is not interested about being coached... what, IMHO, could only help unknot some issues we don't deal with too good...;-)

drakor66 said...

Well there are many ways of learning jo one is with help from those who have experience in the lifestyle. This experience is useless unless the one that needs the help is willing to accept it .

There is always the trail and error method but all methods must have one thing and the core of the education a willingness to communicate. Without it learning can be difficult.

Perhaps exposure to the lifestyle at munches and private parties for him to absord how others might be a way he could learn with out the labe of "student or novice".. Yes we are all students but some do not like the title or the idea that we might not have the knowledge to go along with our desires.

drakor66 said...

As for the pictures well the bottom one is far superior to the houseboy one at least it was a much nicer view for me.
A very pleasant evening for me and sorry to alpha that she did not enjoy it as much as she could those silly worried getting in the way and we won't talk about the tape or the cat hair or the delectable time I had slapping someones ass nooooo we shall not say one little comment about it will we!!!!!

patx42 said...

Well, first off, as the "Newbie couple", W/we would like to thank Sir and His littleone for opening up their dungeon to U/s. The addition of a houseboy was most welcome, both for the additional company as well as the distraction from a lot of "first" time events. The level of service was great. Babygirl is most honoured to have her picture up in your blog. I am also told that I even managed to submerge the "teddy bear" for a little while, but I am also told it came back with a vengence at the end.