Friday, May 28, 2010

Moving on......

Well everyone is telling me to move on and I am going to but I just need to say why I have been hanging on, for lack of a good phase, and that is for statements made/said by " m " like this one:

" I am learning to be myself after many years of being who someone else wanted me to be..... "

I would like to know how I was trying to make someone into something else when she was the one that wanted the D/s lifestyle for the past ten years? So with statements like that make me sound like I am the big bad wolf I needed to be around....

But, I am going to move on in any case since it seems to me that I am never going to be able to protect my good name with statements like that one and others made/said by her.

Oh, and " m ", if you want the toys that you so freely gave when you told me to get ALL the BDSM things that you packed up out of the condo and then you asked back for, I will be more than willing to give them back to you when you give me back the TV that I left that you didn't want to trade for the almost same TV model with me and is that being petty YOUR DAM RIGHT, " sucks to be you " as someone we both know would say !

So I now move on, OH and yes, SirSteve01 you can now play with her without me " interferring in my playtime " as you put it yesterday !!!

Is everyone happy now???

8 comments:

Jen said...

Normally I subscribe to the idea, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." But I honestly think someone has to throw a bucket of cold water in your face.

The "woe is I" attitude, the self pity, the judgmental attitude, the "I'm not going to say another word, but...," the catty comments....it's pathetic and makes you look like a complete loser. I don't know either of you, but based on your blog posts over the last few weeks, I can't blame her for dumping you. Who would want to be with someone who has such low self-esteem? Get over it! And if you can't get over it, at least keep your whining thoughts to yourself (or make your blog private). It's inappropriate and not very fitting of a gentleman to continually comment on his ex.

Sir said...

@Jen, Here is a suggestion, just stop reading this blog if you don't like what I write, simple isn't it?

And your right, you DON'T know either one of us or what really happened.

Blade said...

You are your own victim.

Sir said...

@Blade, if you believe that then it must be.

Anonymous said...

Uh, isn't this HIS blog? I do not know either of them either, but seems to me his blog is for HIM to write whatever he wants!

Blade said...

@Anon If Warren didn't want feedback, he wouldn't have comments on. I think hearing other people's take on things can be helpful. He has been going through a rough time and got a little stuck.

PKB said...

Warren,

It is hard to move on. I know this. And this is a place for you to post your feelings. Unfortunately, it is a public venue and therefore becomes a place where other people feel it is their right to weigh in on what you have written.

I am guilty of wanting to do this as well, but I keep reminding myself that nothing is as simple as it seems when it is reduced to a few paragraphs.
There are real people and real feelings involved here. I hope you both can move on.

P

Sir said...

@Anonymous, your are correct it IS My blog to express what I feel and think, just like other bloggers do on their blogs.