Sunday, April 30, 2006

Doms Are from Mars, subbies Are from Venus*



I have often wondered why God gave U/us emotions, they only get U/us into troubles that W/we truly didn't ask for sometimes..

Over the past weekend ( and longer too ) My subbie, littleone, has been troubled, mostly in My opinion by her own emotions. By thinking that I am up to something, getting another submissive, tired of her, disappointed in her, etc.. and I am going to release her. her mind is playing a mind fuck on her better than I ever could ( pity I am missing all that fun ) and no matter what I say or do she is acting like it is true...

Well, she just might get her wish for I can't take many more emotional outbursts that the one I was dealing with today ( totally moody ), even though I have & gladly wanted to put in a great deal of time, money and emotions in this relationship of Sir/submissive I am getting to the end of the My rope trying to deal with her emotions and how to deal with them.

I know I haven't been able to D/s her the way she wants fully. Maybe I am not the correct Dom for her and I am just fooling Myself that I am. Just maybe I should release her so she can find the correct Dom that will beat her ass every hour of the day and night, a Dom that can support her financially, mentally and most importantly emotionally.

I honestly don't know what to do anymore, I have told her, talked to others in the lifestyle about this and sadly, very sadly I just don't know anymore.....

* Sorry Dr. J. Grey, author of " Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus ", for stealing your title for My title.

13 comments:

Dae said...

/sigh

darlingina said...

thinking of Y/you both...
~gina~

annissa said...

*hugs* heres to hope you both get things all righted soon :)

Jo aka SeaRabbit said...

We all have our rough times... Just wish everything will be fine for both of you soon...

CLoud said...

What I say to one friend I say to the other: sadness, I am here for you when you need me

Sir said...

Thank you cloud, jo, annissa, darlingina, dae for all your wishes of hope...

At the present W/we are working on things...

Butt it is so very nice to see that others care and My THANKS for that..

Sir,
Owner of morningstar

Jo aka SeaRabbit said...

I had like to write to youpersonnaly, but no e-mail appears... and I'm very happy that some doors are opening right now... You seem quite fine with each other... and keep in mind that subs always complain...;-)) It is never enough... ;-)) No matter what you try...;-))

anna said...

Communication is key. Open up and talk and allow yourself to be vulnerable to each other. Express what you really feel and want. Be honest and open. I can't stress the importance of communication enough.

Buffalo said...

Each day is a new day. Regardless of the mechanics of a relationship there is a need for communication, love, and tenderness.

(Damn! Did I say that?)

butterfly said...

*hugs*

seems a lot of us subbies are going through mood swings. my thoughs are with You and she.

~M's butterfly

Anonymous said...

it's so hard when we feel something deep inside, and can't make that feeling go away, even when everything logical is telling us we are wrong.
i hope you both will work through this..
huggggs
alluring red

Anonymous said...

just a piece of unasked for advice, has her hormones been tested lately? lots can be done and a lot naturally, too. best to you both.

Lonesome Raven said...

Sir;
I hope for you-whatever YOU may want; but more importantly what YOU need, that is what matters, you are the dom afterall, yet she is in control, by pouting and self pity. I wish you happiness Sir.