Tuesday, May 04, 2010

Something good has come out of this mess.....



I am so glad I helped a friend in their NEW life.

ADDENDUM:

I just got an email from the above friend and here is part of that email " ... I personally think you should expound on how you helped me get to where I am today. I would like that.. like to know how you see this transition.........

Go on .. I dare you !!!

Ok, I will take up this dare since it seems simply logical....

If I hadn't placed the ad requesting a bondage session for myself the whole mess wouldn't have started and thus my friend on her way to her new wonderful adventure and new thinking of her BDSM ways. Otherwise she would have come to me to talked about not enjoying the BDSM lifestyle ( or the Vanilla one too ) we were living before I place the ad.

I think this answers the dare she has placed in front of me...

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Please, tell us you are doing something other than looking back. Starting to worry. Have you read a book, spoken to a friend, gone for a walk, run errands, been angered by the news, anything but endlessly looking back. Real concern here...

morningstar said...

so the way I understand this answer.., is... that despite everything... the relationship would have ended and I would have moved on.

and this is how you see you helped me???

right..

morningstar

Sir said...

morningstar,

No, If no ad, then the relationship wouldn't have ended would have gone on at that point, maybe in time it would have changed but at the time of the ad, no..

Thus when the ad was found out then and only then was the new thinking and feeling started.

Warren